My daughter is a very strong willed 4 year old and she often wants to do things her own way. This is a quality I want her I have... Eventually. I want her to be outspoken and passionate and change things for the better. But I also need her to listen to me, get dressed in under 20 minutes, and go to the bathroom without starting a giant debate about the 4 Year Old Fairness Act of 2013.
Bean is pokey. When she organizes her toys she sings to them and separates them into layers of how much she loves them. A quick toy clean up can take 15 minutes. When she eats her Cheerios in the morning, she eats them one by one and then slowly spoons the remaining milk into her mouth until she can't get anymore with her spoon. Breakfast can drag on for 20 min.
So getting up and dressed and downstairs has become a place of much strain for us lately. After many months of yelling, crying, and running late to school I decided to ask for her help with our time management. She suggested we make a list... Bean loves a list but can't yet read so we talked about what our morning to do list could look like in pictures. I illustrated the routine that she came up with. She decorated and helped color it in.
This morning was a success. She still moves a little slower than I'd like, but we can rely on the list to show us the next step instead of arguing the entire morning. Fingers crossed that the list keeps working for us...
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
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